Friday, August 15, 2014

Day 2: THE BUTTERFLY SEASON: HOW FIRM A FOUNDATION


With my book pending arrival, thought I would share little snippets with you.  Check out the snippets and activity below!  www.mkt.com/amina-s-mcintyre


Day 2

THE BUTTERFLY SEASON: HOW FIRM A FOUNDATION

“In every condition, in sickness, in health;
In poverty’s vale, or abounding in wealth;
At home and abroad, on the land, on the sea,
As thy days may demand, shall thy strength ever be.”
~ from How Firm a Foundation by John Rippon

Even wonder how a giant gets big or how a celebrity got so famous?  It often seems like overnight there they were, unable to be overlooked for that thing they did. But the majority will tell you that they had to start somewhere. Silas House, author of The Hurting Part and other books, once said to a group of budding writers that it took him 8 years to become an overnight sensation. Before that, there were many drafts and manuscripts and rejections.  His entire journey started from a simple place: by writing the first word.

The strength comes in that starting place.  A butterfly’s egg is the foundation and everything that happens to it helps to shape its experiences. On the outside is a shell hard enough to withstand any climate.  If the butterfly lays the egg in the wintertime, they will not hatch until the spring comes.  The shell also has a coat of glue that allows it to stick to the leaf and not be removed once it is planted, firmly. 

When we are walking in our calling, that overnight celebrity status seems like a farfetched idea at first.  Whether we make an impression on our job, in children’s lives or in our churches, we often start with the tiniest idea.  We protect it, not worrying about the competition and what naysayers say.  If the idea comes during a season where it can not be cultivated to grow -- maybe we are not able to write that full novel at the moment -- we will put it away for a spring day. But more than anything else, we stick to that call, because deep within it is the life source that will move us to our maximum potential. 

This idea will get tested, pushed, molded, shifted out of the way and criticized. Always remember, the foundation is there for a reason - everything we learned there will carry us through.  “That one is like a man building a house, who dug deeply and laid the foundation on rock; when a flood arose, the river burst against that house but could not shake it, because it had been well built” (Luke 6:48).  If we remember the strength of the egg, the humbleness of the beginning, handling a little recognition will not alter the core, for the glue will stick us to the course. 

Consider identifying the whisper of your call and jot it down. Protect those little eggs of life budding within you, making sure the you can build a strong foundation to handle whatever it brings to you.

Thursday, August 14, 2014

Day 1: 7 Days of Peace and Praise

This week, in preparing for the official release of the book, I'll release everyday a sample of the book.  Today, check out Day 1: Reflections: True Living.  www.mkt.com/amina-s-mcintyre


Day 1

REFLECTIONS: TRUE LIVING

The sound of your heart is made clear in your actions.
~ Rev. Jamie Capers

What is living to me?

This is the question I wrote while journaling one morning.  Julia Cameron suggests in her book, The Artist's Way, to write morning pages - three pages of words, bible verses, pictures, song lyrics, whatever you need to center yourself and prepare for the day.  I use it as apart of my devotion/prayer time, so whatever residual feelings from the day before are withdrawn and new items can be deposited in the coming hours.  This is also where I challenge myself to be better, hence the question…

What is living to me?

I like stability.  I am a planner – I need to know exactly where to go, even if the details are not mapped out (this is where I am malleable and can bend rules a little).  I thrive in goal-oriented situations where things are pre-established, which is why I have multiple degrees and am addicted to Candy Crush.  The rounds are clearly structured so that I can measure my own progress without thinking about it.  My solution was to have a basic job as an administrative assistant or clerk at a homeless resource center so I could pay bills.  A basic job provides some stability – a seemingly ideal situation until I can get my writing to be what is necessary. But the question returned…

What is living to me?

What I have found is that this was coping – merely surviving when my potential, in fact, is much greater than that. The mundane tasks were crippling, clouding my judgment of what was more important to me, what makes me grow. Things I would have completed overtime quickly were now met with intense hesitation. When faced with the question of “What happened?”, it was the necessary mirror to consider exactly the person I was growing into. It led me to believe I may not be embracing my truth. “Behold, You desire truth in the inner being; make me therefore to know wisdom in my inmost heart” (Psalm 51: 6).   I realized I was in fact trying to hide, however, potential and talent shine like a lightening bug in a dark room; once you think they have made it out, a little flash is a reminder of their presence.  So I came back to the question….

What is living to me?

Living, to me, looks a lot like walking in the path I am destined to walk on and not playing it safe.  Trying the areas once more that I thought I failed previously.  Living means not being fearful of reprioritizing or reorganizing.  Living is not being afraid to succeed.  Over the next 30 days, I encourage you to decide, what is living to you?

Activity: What is Living to You?  




Saturday, July 12, 2014

It's Back..

Hi Everyone,

I know there was a bit of a hiatus.  Honestly, we all need a little bit of the time to regroup, to refresh, and restore ourselves. We also need to have a few life experiences so that there is more to write.  It is time to get some new things posted and the content that is coming is sure to remind you of why you enjoy Peace and Praise to begin with.

One of the truly blessed things that have happened in my life is that I've learned about liturgical seasons. Not just Advent and Easter, but also Pentecost and the season we are about to embark upon - Kingdomtide. This time is also referred to as "ordinary time" during which the color green is displayed. Why is this important, because it means it is time for growth.

I don't want to be the same person I was 5 years ago or even 5 minutes ago. There is so more much to breath, feel, embrace and know that staying stagnant will not allow you to every comprehend.  But what I love most about this season is that I've reconnected with my foundation and redefined myself based on the simple promises and goals I set before getting a little distracted.  And looking at them from a wiser, more knowledgable lens gave me more reason to move forward with them.

With that said, I invite you all to take a look at my upcoming website - www.ladylovesherpen.wordpress.com - and to consider purchasing 30 Days of Peace and Praise, which officially comes out on August 24, 2014.    Order form is attached as is the link to the online purchase.  $3.00 will be added for shipping and handling.   I will also be creating "You" retreats for you to do in a group or by yourself, at home or away.

Let's get ready for an amazing journey!

Miss you all and can't wait to walk with you guys.

Amina

30 Days of Peace and Praise

$20.00  $15.00 until August 1st!  Pre-order online or place an order form today!



Wednesday, July 2, 2014

Turn Down for What

There's a holiday at the end of the week, so let's keep the momentum!  No reason to "turn down" in getting the work done, it's almost here! Thanks, Redd Fox (as Fred Sanford).  This will definitely make you move to a new rhythm.

Wednesday, June 4, 2014

Inner Calm

This is a video from Bobby McFaurin live (I featured his "Don't Worry, Be Happy" on the blog before).   When I stumbled upon this awesome clip, it colored my day and evened my mood. I often watch it, from the interactions with the audience on down, because it is brilliant. Be calm today, be peaceful, be you.


Wednesday, May 21, 2014

Speak Over Yourself

It's Wednesday and we're halfway to Friday!  Here's a little inspiration to make it through the rest of the week. Speak over whatever you're concerned about in finishing all your task.  Be encouraged!


Wednesday, May 14, 2014

Looks Aren't Everything

Ever wonder if you only looked a little more or did little more like this person, things would be easier?  Cameron Russell, in her Ted Talk, wants you to think a little differently.   Happy Wednesday!


Wednesday, May 7, 2014

First Wednesday: Seye Awe and The

Happy First Wednesday!  As always, we are featuring an independent artist's song.  Today is the Nigerian-born Seye Awe & The Sought Outs "Casting All Your Cares".  Follow them on Facebook and download their music by clicking "Band Profile".  See their interview below the video:





Wednesday, April 30, 2014

No Limits

We all have certain obstacles that hinder us from pursuing our goals, keep moving toward them anyway.  Check out the Pep Talk from Wish at the Well.  Happy rest of the week!


Wednesday, April 23, 2014

Instructions for a Bad Day

When it doubt, listen to this poem by Shane Koyczan.  The visual is from Kevin McDonald's "Life in a Day; some film clips are from Jon Goodgion.  Happy Wednesday!



Lyrics (as posted on deviantart.com)

"There will be bad days. Be calm. Loosen your grip, opening each palm slowly now. Let go. Be confident. Know that now is only a moment, and that if today is as bad as it gets, understand that by tomorrow, today will have ended. Be gracious. Accept each extended hand offered, to pull you back from the somewhere you cannot escape. Be diligent. Scrape the gray sky clean. Realize every dark cloud is a smoke screen meant to blind us from the truth, and the truth is whether we see them or not - the sun and moon are still there and always there is light. Be forthright. Despite your instinct to say "it's alright, I'm okay" - be honest. Say how you feel without fear or guilt, without remorse or complexity. Be lucid in your explanation, be sterling in your oppose. If you think for one second no one knows what you've been going through; be accepting of the fact that you are wrong, that the long drawn and heavy breaths of despair have at times been felt by everyone - that pain is part of the human condition and that alone makes you a legion. We hungry underdogs, we risers with dawn, we dissmisser's of odds, we blesser's of on – we will station ourselves to the calm. We will hold ourselves to the steady, be ready player one. Life is going to come at you armed with hard times and tough choices, your voice is your weapon, your thoughts ammunition – there are no free extra men, be aware that as the instant now passes, it exists now as then. So be a mirror reflecting yourself back, and remembering the times when you thought all of this was too hard and you'd never make it through. Remember the times you could have pressed quit – but you hit continue. Be forgiving. Living with the burden of anger, is not living. Giving your focus to wrath will leave your entire self absent of what you need. Love and hate are beasts and the one that grows is the one you feed. Be persistent. Be the weed growing through the cracks in the cement, beautiful - because it doesn't know it's not supposed to grow there. Be resolute. Declare what you accept as true in a way that envisions the resolve with which you accept it. If you are having a good day, be considerate. A simple smile could be the first-aid kit that someone has been looking for. If you believe with absolute honesty that you are doing everything you can - do more. There will be bad days, Times when the world weighs on you for so long it leaves you looking for an easy way out. There will be moments when the drought of joy seems unending. Instances spent pretending that everything is alright when it clearly is not, check your blind spot. See that love is still there, be patient. Every nightmare has a beginning, but every bad day has an end. Ignore what others have called you. I am calling you friend. Make us comprehend the urgency of your crisis. Silence left to its own devices, breed's silence. So speak and be heard. One word after the next, express yourself and put your life in the context – if you find that no one is listening, be loud. Make noise. Stand in poise and be open. Hope in these situations is not enough and you will need someone to lean on. In the unlikely event that you have no one, look again. Everyone is blessed with the ability to listen. The deaf will hear you with their eyes. The blind will see you with their hands. Let your heart fill their news-stands, Let them read all about it. Admit to the bad days, the impossible nights. Listen to the insights of those who have been there, but come back. They will tell you; you can stack misery, you can pack disappear you can even wear your sorrow – but come tomorrow you must change your clothes. Everyone knows pain. We are not meant to carry it forever. We were never meant to hold it so closely, so be certain in the belief that what pain belongs to now will belong soon to then. That when someone asks you how was your day, realize that for some of us – it's the only way we know how to say, be calm. Loosen your grip, opening each palm, slowly now – let go."

Wednesday, April 16, 2014

Define Yourself

 See Lizzie Velasquez's amazing story (13 mins) of overcoming labels society has placed on her.  After being cyber bullied as a teenager, she decided to be a motivational speaker and excel past all limits.  This Wednesday, decide how you define yourself.  Have a great rest of the week!


Wednesday, April 9, 2014

Giving is the Best Communication

This Thailand mobile advertisement has the strongest message of how one small step can impact in such a larger scale.  Do little things this week that will go a long way.  Happy Wednesday!


Wednesday, April 2, 2014

First Wednesdays: Duran

This is dedicated to the CHILD…the one in all of us. The child that wants to BE…not to be told. The child who’s DREAM was lived through a bathroom mirror and a toothbrush microphone. 
~ Duran

Photo from website www.iamduran.com
It's the first Wednesday of March! Today, we're featuring Duran, a singer, rapper and songwriter based in the Atlanta area by way of Maryland.  Described as "a smokey, savory and sweet gumbo", his music is a fusion of neosoul and hip hop - a special blend of verity and sensibility reminiscent of your grandparents hot toddy, an elixir for the weather-beaten soul. His movement, with his loyal group of Stargazers, is to encourage people to "believe that following the unique design plans or 'divine blueprints' - which were written in the stars - will bring their dreams to life."

One who is very down to earth with insight beyond his years, Duran has been seen at local festivals such as the Artist's Showcase at Taliah Waajid's World's Natural Hair Show and shared stages with major emcees such as Big Sean of G. O. O. D Music. Last year, Duran was featured on CBSAtlanta for his tribute to Trayvon Martin, "Skittles and Arizona" (video below).  He is currently expanding his artistry to include acting, as he was "Jeremy Furlow" in the New African Grove production of August Wilson's Joe Turner's Come and Gone (August 2013); his upcoming role is "Booth" in the Songs of Karibu production of Suzan-Lori Parks' Topdog/Underdog (AOA Studios; April 25-27, 2014).

His most recent studio project is entitled, "Stargazers: Why Shouldn't It Be Us?", which can downloaded from his website at www.iamduran.com (under "Menu" tab at the top left corner, click "Music").  Sample some of his music and quotes below!

Getting Started
"My brother introduced me to freestyling and I took it from there. I used to use poems to impress girls. Lol." ~ Duran




Inspiration
"I'm inspired by life. I'm a firm believer that art imitates life; I can not write or perform anything that's not based in truth. I hope people will take away a firm belief in dreams and in purpose. That's what my movement is all about. Dreams = purpose and vice versa." ~ Duran


For Stargazers
"I hope people will see what [they are] doing and begin to listen to that inner voice they have. The one that tells them to follow their heart. I'm not claiming to be a leader but, if I am seen that way, I hope to do so by example." ~ Duran



Booking Information:

Email
eyeamduran@gmail.com
Website
Twitter
Instagram
Facebook

"You are a VIRTUOUS, BOLD, PASSIONATE, UNIQUE being with the POWER to move mountains, walk on water and SHINE with the STARS. TRUST your VISION and follow your HEART."  ~ Duran

Tuesday, April 1, 2014

Happy April!

It's not an April Fool's Joke!  We're back to jump start in April and we have quite a bit in store for you!  Welcome back everyone. 
 

Wednesday, March 26, 2014

What's in your Heart?

Happy Wednesday! Today's video is all about drive and trying something new.  Getting out there and trying instead of just allowing things to happen to you.  The narrator is a drill sergeant, but sometimes you need one to get you through to the next level.  Keep focused, keep moving, take more risks.



Wednesday, March 19, 2014

Facing Rejection

Just because someone says you can't accomplish some thing doesn't mean it can not be done.  If they could do it, so can we - at least finishing our own goals.


Wednesday, March 12, 2014

From a Different Vantage Point

Ever sometimes wonder what would happen if you could see things from a different angle? For today's Motivation Break, imagine if The Shining, a well known thriller by Stephen King, was actually a romantic comedy.  Didn't think it could be possible?  Here's a trailer that may change your perception.  No worries, all the "thrill" is gone (out of the clip).


Wednesday, March 5, 2014

Discover Your Passion

This Wednesday, remind yourself of your inner passions and your overall goal of being your best self in every situation.  See Eugene Hennie's Tedx Talk, "How to Find Your Passion and Inner Awesomeness".  Be encouraged the rest of the week.


Wednesday, February 26, 2014

Defying odds

I love this video because here is a group of guys refusing to dwell on the limits of space. Pretty impressive the more you watch as this is definitely entertainments.  I love even more how they played by their own rules and were respectful of those surrounding them (and checked one another if it was getting out of hand).  Consider this your Wednesday boost.  Happy rest of the week!


Wednesday, February 19, 2014

A Pep Talk

I love watching videos of children saying that which we really need to hear. Kid President's video is always someone who delivers just this.  Be well, be encouraged!


Wednesday, February 12, 2014

Meet Yourself in the Mirror

This Valentine's Day, remember to love yourself first and above all. Here's Ashley Wylde's "Meet Yourself in the Mirror".


Saturday, February 8, 2014

Weekend Activity: Snail Mail



This weekend, take a little time to have a foray with letter writing.  With the invention of email and text message, the phone call and general letter writing are all but obsolete.  However, there is a special feeling one still feels when they open their mailbox to find a letter that has nothing to do with a bill. This weekend, choose one or two persons to write a letter on a notecard, postcard or even a regular sheet of paper.

Wednesday, February 5, 2014

First Wednesday: D'Marie

Happy Wednesday! Once a month, on the first Wednesdays, Peace and Praise will feature independent artists from around the world.  Today's artist is D'Marie.


Twitter: @DMarieSings

A couple of years ago at The Phenomenal Women's Summit in Birmingham, Alabama, the morning meditation leader presented a hybrid power hour of scripture, quotes and music.  Different from many other meditation hours I attended in my conference career, this leader wove her own compositions into the worship, allowing attendees to walk through the journey of her pain and move through to healing.  The music, a gospel neo-soul infusion, was inspiring, uplifting and encouraging a move through to a cathartic experience, where the participants were able to unpack their own, boxed and shelved emotions in the safety of the hour.

Meet D'Marie, one who has the "ability to create memorable moments through presence, word, and song—giving voice to the voiceless, bringing healing, motivating worship, and drawing people into the loving presence of God".   Her album, H2O, features tunes such as "Afraid", "Misty Rain" and the theme song of The Phenomenal Women's Summit, "I'm not that Woman Anymore" covering a vast range of tunes suited for quite worship and meditation.   For these reasons and more, we share this brilliant walk in the wade pool and some insight from D'Marie in this post. Enjoy!  


How did you get started with your music?

Honestly, I have always "done" music; I even started arranging songs and writing my own compositions back in 1985. I did a project about 12 years ago but never felt comfortable with it or my voice on it. It took me this long to really commit to this new identity, to this as a career. I guess that is why I took on a new name/alter ego. Because of my other profession, a trusted friend thought that having a stage name would make it easier for some to accept what I was doing and what I was singing. I hesitated at first, but finally became comfortable when I came up with a name that was my name anyway. I'm glad I did it now. It has allowed me a certain freedom when my title would have been a restraint.



What was the inspiration for your album H2O? 

The songs of H2as a collection tell the story of my journey since I moved to Birmingham. This particular project began with the song “Something in the Water.” It sprang from a poem I wrote because of my frustration with my work supervisors (who remain my colleagues in other settings) because of belittling behavioral patterns that left me bewildered, disappointed, and trapped in an unhealthy situation. Up to that point, I had been in a songwriting drought, just couldn’t get a lot of inspiration. After I finally decided to put that song into recorded form, my songwriting drought ended. I began to have ideas for more and began to sit down to think about what I wanted (and needed) to express. The writing of the project itself and the recording and editing process were my form of “music therapy”—allowing me to find some clarity and emotional healing for myself. I wrote what I felt, not trying to make it pretty, not trying to make nice. I simply wrote from my life.

Regarding the title, there are three songs in this project which have water references.  “Something in the Water” suggests that the water someone drank was tainted, causing that person to behave in unexpected and disappointing ways.   The second, “A Life Touched by Pain,” uses the imagery of rain representing the painful, difficult seasons of life. However, even in the midst of dreary seasons, God is present and active, helping us find the beauty in the rain. “Misty Rain,” on the other hand, celebrates the replenishing, life-giving ability of water and the ways in which love replenishes and renews us, restoring what the struggles of life have taken away from us.

I decided to go with H2O to draw those images to the forefront and to offer music that can be a misty rain for others.



How does "I'm Not that Woman Anymore" serve as an anthem for you and as a single?

Thinking of “I’m Not That Woman Anymore” as my anthem makes me smile! My artistic collaborator thought that the song sounded too angry at first, and he was right! In a way, it reflects my anger, but it was that same anger that pulled me out of the pit I felt I was in and made me fight back. The fight itself was that of reclaiming my space, reclaiming some peace of mind, reclaiming my sense of self, reclaiming the strength to leave a toxic situation. In part it was anger, but it was also celebration! I had had ample opportunity to compare the damaging impact that situation was having on me to the loving and strengthening presence of people like my spouse and other close friends, which led me to gather up my courage and move on with life. This song is the unofficial “part 2” of “Something in the Water” since it became my goodbye song as I closed that chapter. It was my anthem celebrating the change in me, the growth that allowed me to let that go and reclaim my strength.


  

How do you hope this album will touch and inspire others?

I think this quote from my liner notes answer this question. It reads: 
"I have been entrusted with a great gift of music by God, the giver of all good gifts. This project is fruit of that generous gift. It is my desire that these songs will, first of all, be reflections of the beauty, grace, and love of God.  Secondly, since the words and music have helped me to heal and to celebrate love in greater fullness, I pray that they will also bless the listeners as they heal and/or as they celebrate love in greater fullness."

What is one thing you would like for everyone to take away from your album?

I want the "take away" to be a sense that love makes us whole, that love helps us bear the tragedies and disappointments that come with living, and that love surprises us with the strength we need to get back into the game.


D'Marie can be booked by contacting her via Facebook at the information above. See her perform on Friday, February 7, 2014 at the Sister City Connection in Birmingham, Alabama.

Tuesday, February 4, 2014

Car Theology: I Can Start Again


For the next month, we'll be looking into devotions based around my learning how to work with my car - and how they all taught me something new about myself.  It has a different format than the normal Peace and Praise.  I hope you all still enjoy it all the same!

Not my baby, but a look alike.  The Colby AKA Brown Blur
What I Learned: I Can Start Again

What happened: Broken Starter

One Homecoming weekend, during my Indiana days, I had to be at work.  In small town, liberal arts college employee life, having a weekend to yourself is completely atypical. I stretched, took a few moments to myself to get prepared for the day, wanting to orient myself before getting to the big game, often used as a time for recruitment and networking with the student's families.  I went outside and The Colby, as my students affectionately called my car, was sitting there just waiting for the day.   I got in, unlocked the door and sat down, ready to get into the laziness of my day.  Instead of the legato vroom that typically freely accompanied the turn, there was a staccato click. I tried it a couple of times, to know avail. Surely it must have been my battery.

Thinking I must have been careless, I got my friend to come out and together we tried to start my car, first considering jumping it.  After wiggling it a few times, the car eventually started. I still had a few minutes to get to work and other places so I took it straight to one of the body shops - a small family own garage on the main road in the town, whose gas prices were about $.50 above the rest.  I met the owner, after some discussion, he checked it out.  The body shop told me it was the starter, a piece inside the ignition that makes it turn on.  They can get worn down, and when they do, they cause a "clicking" noise. They also tole me it would cost about 1500 dollars to fix.  I should have known that could be the case since the gas price outside of the place was at least .50 higher than any of the other gas in town.

After a day or so, I went looking in the phone book and talked with a few friends on campus and someone recommended me to Crazy Jim. The thought was scary since I lived in a small Indiana town.  Crazy Jim could have been a confederate redneck from the backwoods - I was just a little uneasy.  Just when I found myself doubting the situation, I thought back to what was stronger - assumption or my refusal to pay $1500 for anything concerning my already 10+ year old car.  That was half of what I paid for it to begin with!

On Monday, I took my car into Crazy Jim. When I came up to his shop, I had to first drive down a gravel alleyway to get to his shop. I approached and saw cars all over the place. Already, I started to feel like I was at home.  Out comes Crazy Jim, a short, slender man with shoulder length black and gray hair that wasn’t really combed, which didn’t matter since it was hidden under a sun faded navy blue, oil stained hat and an equally scraggly low salt and pepper beard. And he was smoking a cigarette.  He reminded me of my uncles when they got into the groove of their carpentry work and has to hanging by the lip, threatening to fall at any moment, though staying on by some invisible string.

I introduced myself to Jim and told him my problem. He asked me to pop my hood and for me to turn on the car. I did and when I got the same staccato notes, he reported the same thing that the other garage did – the starter. He told me though, I wouldn’t only need to pay about $300 dollars for the part and the installation. I had to ask of course, why on earth the discrepancy in the price. He told me that the part was hard to find, but it still wouldn’t cost that much.

I went back to work that afternoon and worked easily knowing there was someone under the hood who knew what they were doing.  It was the start of a beautiful relationship.

Sometimes we start things or at least try to and realized that it is not the direction you’re supposed to go into.  We often will abandon the idea complete, giving up, to some degree on a particular notion.   I kept trying because I realized I needed to try a few options rather than accept just any place to take care of my car. Isaiah 30:21 reads, "And your ears shall hear a word behind you, saying, “This is the way, walk in it,” when you turn to the right or when you turn to the left." We have to follow our instincts and move forward with discernment when we are presented with such issues.  Chances are we'll be blessed with something more as a result of it.

When my starter got fixed, I also received mechanic relationship my car could appreciate and utilize until the day I would depart Indiana.

            

Saturday, February 1, 2014

Weekend Activity: Vision Board

Amina's Vision Board
This weekend, let's get our goals list, a poster board, a few old magazines, scissors and a glue stick and make our visions come to life.  Let's put together a vision board that includes our hopes, dreams, and obtainable goals!

Thursday, January 30, 2014

World Methodist Council Post



Today, we are regrouping from the snow in Atlanta.  Instead of the regular post, here's a highlight of the World Methodist Council Youth and Young Adult Devotional that was posted for January.  It is truly an honor to be one of the bloggers for this cycle.  Be sure to click HERE to check it out!

Wednesday, January 29, 2014

Never, Ever Give Up

It's about a month into the new year, how is it going?  How are the goals shaping up?  Have they gotten a little difficult?  Here is a Ted talk by Diana Nyad, who swam from Cuba to Florida, on keeping focused on the goals. Never, Ever Give Up.


Tuesday, January 28, 2014

Shadow Lurking

Art by: Kumi Yamashita. See more here  
"The easiest way to avoid wrong notes is to never open your mouth and sing. What a mistake that would be." ~ Pete Seeger

Have you ever met a person who poured out into everyone, yet neglected themselves? They may motivate, dedicate, encourage and inspire others but never assist themselves. To be fair and true, there are those who are gifted in the art of building confidence in others, that possess a finesse with words and can discern the needs of a particular situation. However, to spend all their energy in service to and at the discretion of others sims their own light. In conversation, one will say, "How talented is this person, but have you met the person who walks with them?"  

 No one knows how they end up in such a situation often until it is pointed out by others. Usually, such a role is initially by choice, to bide time until something greater comes, a stepping stone. Somehow they then stay on that space, adding room to the stone slab, staying much longer than they should. Before they realize it, they are comfortable, inadvertently sitting on and hiding talents that were to be cultivated and multiplied. After so much time has passed, they may see the path before them as obsolete and irrelevant, and reduce the uses to those around them.  

In our own lives, there are often occurrences where we take a backseat or avoid what we are called  to do in exchange for survival.  We defer to others, we get used to the monotonous pattern we create for ourselves. But are we spiritually fulfilled? Are we increasing our growth and allowing our abilities to shine through?  Do we even know what it is we are to do, or are we believing it is just a hobby?

Respecting our calling, not putting our dreams on hold so that others may advance, is one of the reasons we're here. We want to pursue all that we are capable of, and even some of what we don't think we are. We want to use our talents to that they multiply. We want to be told ".... ‘Well done, good and faithful servant. You have been faithful over a little; I will set you over much. Enter into the joy of your master. ’" (Matthew 25:21). For if we sit on them, hide them, remain in the shadows of others, those talents will be taken away or used to serve those we follow.

Consider, today, reconsidering our talents and how to they are being put to use. There is a special blessing in store when you do.

Saturday, January 25, 2014

Weekend Activity: Our Top 100




Recently, Shaun King held a 100 Life Goals University webinar with successful people around the world offering their take on how they move forward toward their life goals.  The thing that most people started with: setting the goals.  This weekend, think of the 100 things we would like to do for the rest of our lives.  Start with some smaller short term ones, then expand to larger goals, just make them all specific.  It'll take a while, let's just make them intentional!  Let's post our top 5 in the comments below!


Thursday, January 23, 2014

Reflections: It’s Raining Blessings!




Art by Carlos S. from the blog www.biblearts.blogspot.com/

If you believe in God, He will open the windows of heaven
 and pour blessings upon you.
~ Mahalia Jackson

In December 2013, I decided to take a position that would expand my ministry significantly. It was a surprise promotion, one completely not in my line of vision, one I did not think – or even hope – would ever come to me.  Since that time, it seems that little blessings have come to reveal themselves.  There have been opportunities to go on free trips for which I only last year had to purchase out of my own funds (for the same event).  Recommendations for writing and editing contracts and new options to pursue my play aspirations have seemingly opened up!  This blog has even, over the past 7 weeks, become richer in what it offers.  And let me not forget that my car has a new set of hubcaps, which I mentioned in Reflections: The Parable of the Hubcap, showed up on my car one day.

I started to think about how sometimes do not realize that we are standing in the way of our own breakthrough. That there are opportunities waiting for us the moment we decide to just follow out path. The day the offer to pastor a small church was brought to me, I was very hesitant to accept elevation to leadership, am still nervous that one day people would see through my façade. I tend to be far less traditional in my worship and dealings in life, and to be honest, there are those who could absolutely preach rings around me. But blessings, I noticed, would be revealed every time I started to doubt myself.  These little rewards can serve as confirmation to encourage us to continue along our path.  They may be a mystery how it actually occurred, but we have to allow ourselves to appreciate when a blessing has fallen into our laps without our prompting.  

There is a certain passage in the Bible where the people were not exactly being the most obedient, mainly because, at least it seems, there was doubt in their own abilities and in the validity of the promise their ancestors were given.  How often do we change our own courses significantly because we are certain, before trying, it just can possibly work?  God doles out verbal discipline, possibly more hurt the people did not believe that God would make good on the deal as shown in their actions. The adamant request is the following: “’Bring the full tithe into the storehouse, so that there may be food in my house, and thus put me to the test,” says the Lord of hosts; “see if I will not open the windows of heaven for you and pour down for you an overflowing blessing.’” (Malachi 3:10).  It may be hard to walk in a space, to accept that our position leads us in a particular direction, but if we try it, we will see the response in a currency of blessings.

This past Sunday, a day off from my church, which only meets 3 Sundays out of the month, I visited my home church and preached there.  I was feeling a little unsure of how my sermon went that morning, not sure all the pieces were woven together. While in the moment of my doubt, a young man and his friend came up to me.  They asked me if I noticed something different about my car.  Knowing that mischief happens sometimes, I was tentative about the questioning, concerned that I would have to pay yet another sum on my car.  After a little prodding, they even seemed a little shy about it, one on young man told me that his father had put the hubcaps on in secret and that he was never to have told me.  I do not know why the father didn't want me to know or why the boy chose that day to ask me about it - now at least two months since the hubcaps first appeared.   I simply took it as more confirmation.

This week, I encourage us all to be willing to be more obedient to our callings and to where we are supposed to be in life.  To sacrifice our own doubts and fears, to walk boldly in our futures; after all, when doubts occur, blessings will be there to confirm the path.